Brendan Murphy: The Reality of Architecture School, Resilience & Rebuilding Your Path

In this episode, we sit down with Brendan Murphy, a University of Auckland architecture master’s student, to unpack what architecture school is really like - the creativity, the pressure, the studio culture, the workload, and the long road toward becoming a registered architect.

Brendan shares his journey from Cambridge High School to architecture school, reflecting on the subjects that helped him most, why maths is not as essential as many students assume, and why creativity, curiosity, English, art, DVC, workshop skills, and a genuine passion for design matter so much.

This conversation also goes deeper. Brendan speaks honestly about growing up around family violence, leaving home in Year 13, finding safety through another family, and continuing to pursue his goals through instability, COVID lockdowns, lost confidence, ADHD clarity, tough work, travel, and eventually rediscovering his love for architecture.

For students considering architecture, this episode is a grounded look at the pathway: the application process, first-year expectations, studio culture, the intensity of final submissions, the bachelor’s-to-master’s decision, registration, job prospects, overseas opportunities, and why architecture is demanding - but deeply rewarding.

This is for aspiring architects, creatives, students navigating uncertainty, and anyone who needs the reminder that your beginning does not have to define your future.

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Please note: this episode includes a first-hand discussion of family and domestic violence. If that is not something you want to listen to, please skip approximately minutes 20--30. Take care of yourself while listening.

Support resources in New Zealand

If you are in immediate danger, call 111. If you cannot speak safely, New Zealand family violence resources note that you can stay on the line and follow the call-taker prompts; Are You OK specifically says to press 55 if it is unsafe to speak.

Women’s Refuge: 0800 REFUGE / 0800 733 843 — free 24/7 crisis support.

Shine: 0508 744 633 — free family violence helpline, 24/7, with webchat available.

Are You OK: 0800 456 450 — 24/7 family violence support and information.

Safe to Talk: 0800 044 334 or text 4334 — 24/7 sexual harm support.

Shakti Crisis Line: 0800 SHAKTI / 0800 742 584 — 24/7 multilingual support for migrant and refugee women.